I picked
a day of all days to start writing a blog.
The truth is I sat down to write, hoping for some relief. And in the hopes of finding said relief, I am
going to be transparent.
I messed
up yesterday.
I wasn't
paying attention and allowed a conversation to take place that put a member of
our ministry team in the cross-hairs for criticism. It was unintentional, but as pastor, that one
is on me. And I regret it deeply. So I spent the night at odds with myself,
even my wife. And I woke up this morning
after what was only a few minutes of sleep to the news that my grandmother has
terminal cancer that has invaded her entire body. Really?
The man
in me feels like I am being a baby. He
tells me it'll be fine and to move on.
The pastor and husband in me knows I messed up. He feels like the world is coming to an
end. And now I am worried about my
family. My mom has battled cancer for
nearly 3 years and is still fighting.
Now her mom will not have much of a fighting chance against the same
disease. The son and grandson in me just
wants to go home.
I am on
empty.
So this
morning, I put my head down and I pray for help to be strong in the Lord and
the power of His might (Ephesians 6:10). I know the same afflictions I experience, my
brothers and sisters experience too. I
know I am not alone, so I beg for mercy from Him who is long suffering toward
us and whose tender mercies will not fail (Psalm 25:6).
There is
no simple fix for this one. No magic
pill. The flood waters are rising. The fire is kindled. So I choose to trust His promise to me, for
my kin and my faith family.
"When
you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they
shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned,
and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One
of Israel, your Savior." (Isaiah 43:2 - 3)
I am so sorry about your grandmother, Ben. There are times when we must be emptied, so that God may fill us up again.
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